Have you got a boyfriend for the first time and are you ready to move on to the next phase, which is foreplay? A large number of women have difficulties with jerking off and become insecure because of it. How should you hold it? How does my partner feel? Should I do it in a different way? These are all questions that women sometimes ask themselves during a handjob. For the unsure women and beginners, we have some tips and tricks that will make you a pro jerk-off.
What is ‘jerking off’ and how should it be done?
It is a form of (self) stimulation where the goal is to cum. Up and down movements can be made by the man or the woman. In addition, the balls can also be stimulated.
During masturbation, men usually use the same technique. The man puts his hand or fingers around the penis and makes an up and down movement. The focus is on the shaft, because that way the foreskin and the glans are stimulated. This stimulation makes the man excited and increases the flow of blood to the penis. The extra blood causes an erection. A little bit of lubricant can also work wonders to make the man finally come.
Did you know that the head is the most sensitive part of the penis? The nipple is the piece of skin that connects the foreskin to the penis.
These tools help with jacking off
One of the best tools is of course sex toys. Don’t think that only women use sex toys during masturbation, men can also use them perfectly. Dildos, butt plugs and vibrators can be used to stimulate sensitive areas. The more excited the man is, the faster he will come.
If sex toys are not enough to get a man aroused, porn can also help. The visual stimuli can provide just that little bit more stimulation. Of course, not everyone likes porn and that is normal. Find out what you like best and apply it while masturbating or jerking off your partner.
Jerking off can get boring, but not with these tips!
After a while, the excitement around foreplay and jerking off can get a little dull and it may not feel as good. Luckily, there are a few jerk-off tips that can give your sex life a boost again.
- Change the rhythm
By speeding up or slowing down the up and down movement, you can increase or decrease the stimulation. In this way, you can ‘tease’ your man a little. Speed up the movement and your man will get more and more excited and after a while you suddenly slow down and delay the orgasm. Masturbation or jerking off will therefore last a lot longer.
- Don’t forget the rest of the body
Some women ignore the balls, but they probably don’t know that the scrotum can also be very sensitive and can provide even more excitement. Besides the balls, the man has several other erogenous zones (places that are sensitive). Find out where your partner’s are and don’t forget them during the next foreplay.
- Squeeze it
Not every man likes this, but some men like to squeeze their penis a little extra during masturbation or jerking off. Especially when a finger or thumb goes over the most sensitive spot of the penis. That spot is, of course, the tip of the penis. The pinching will provide extra stimulation.
- Lubricant, your new best friend
Lubricant can make a world of difference during a handjob. It makes the foreskin move over the head more easily and the hand or fingers move over the shaft and head more smoothly.
Give your partner the best orgasm he has ever had or you can also spoil yourself with these new techniques!